A Beautiful Finger Lakes Micro Wedding Planned in Just Two Weeks
Most Couples Spend a Year Planning Their Wedding…
We all know weddings take a lot of planning. Most couples spend well over a year hiring vendors, creating Pinterest boards, tackling seating charts, deciding what to DIY and what needs to be outsourced, sending Save the Dates and invitations…the list goes on. Honestly, it is exhausting just to think about.
Somewhere along the way, we started treating a long planning timeline as a requirement. Planning a wedding in anything under six months is often seen as slightly unhinged, and planning one in less than two weeks? Practically impossible.
Yet Max and Dandy planned their Hemlock Lake micro wedding in less than two weeks, and their day was anything but rushed. It was intimate, relaxed, full of love, and completely centered on the two of them. The decor complemented the natural surroundings rather than competing with them, every detail had meaning, and their 20 favorite people were there to witness it.
More than anything, the day felt real. It felt like them. And it proved that a beautiful Finger Lakes micro wedding or elopement does not have to take a year and a half to plan when the focus stays on what actually matters.
From a Backyard Proposal to a Hemlock Lake Micro Wedding
Just one week after Max and Dandy got engaged, I received a call from Max asking whether I was available the following week to photograph their wedding. I had already been hiding in their backyard to document his surprise proposal in front of the garden they had grown and created together, so this felt like the perfect next chapter in their story.
They had loved the thought and care I put into capturing the proposal and wanted that same level of intention carried into their wedding day. Of course, my answer was yes.
They initially described the day as an elopement, and in spirit it absolutely was: intimate, flexible, deeply personal, and focused on their relationship rather than on putting on a production. With 20 guests joining them, it also fit beautifully into the micro wedding category. Whether someone searches for a Hemlock Lake elopement, a Finger Lakes micro wedding, or simply a small wedding near Rochester, this day is proof that the label matters far less than creating an experience that feels right for the couple.
Planning a Micro Wedding in Under Two Weeks
With a guest list of 20 people, Max and Dandy were able to coordinate a date that worked for everyone without having to plan 6 to 9 months out, mail out Save the Dates, followed by formal invitations. All it took were a few phone calls. Once the date was chosen, their biggest decision was finding the right location.
They spent a couple of days visiting state and county parks, looking for a place that felt like them. When they reached Hemlock Lake, they knew they had found it.
From there, the rest of the planning stayed beautifully simple: securing their marriage license, buying a cake, renting 20 chairs, choosing the ceremony area at the park, and making dinner reservations. That was it. No giant seating chart, no overflowing spreadsheet, and no debates over napkin colors or center pieces.
Dandy found her dress at a local boutique, and I fell in love with it the second I saw it. It felt bridal without being overly formal, and its simplicity was perfect for an outdoor Hemlock Lake elopement-style wedding. It lended itself even more perfectly to her going barefoot, bringing in a natural feel to the ceremony, allowing her to feel more connected to the earth, and let’s be honest – providing the more comfort than any high heel ever would!
One of the smartest decisions they made was holding their micro wedding on a weekday. Weekend rentals and locations tend to fill quickly, and parks are naturally busier. A weekday gave them more privacy and helped preserve the quiet, intimate feeling they wanted. Their guests only needed to take part of the day away from work, which was also easier than trying to coordinate around everyone’s summer weekend plans.
Why Hemlock Lake Was Perfect for an Intimate Finger Lakes Wedding
It was important to Dandy to be married beneath a tall, mature tree. For her, the tree symbolized longevity, strength, and ancestral roots. They also wanted natural views and a peaceful setting, and Hemlock Lake offered all of it in one place.
Hemlock Lake is one of the quieter Finger Lakes. With restrictions on motorized boats and swimming, the lake tends to draw kayakers, people fishing, and visitors looking for a peaceful day outdoors rather than large crowds. That atmosphere makes it a beautiful option for a small wedding, micro wedding, or elopement near Rochester, NY.
On a weekday afternoon, the park feels especially calm. There is ample parking, actual bathrooms (which is a wildly underrated wedding-day luxury), a gazebo and pavilion area, mature trees, and a stunning view of the lake. The setting already has so much beauty and meaning that they did not need to transform it into something else
Another huge benefit is that the Pavilion at Hemlock Lake Park is free to use. It is first come first serve, with a high chance of it being available on a weekday during the day.
When the Forecast Called for a Storm
A couple of days before their wedding, we started tracking a large thunderstorm that appeared to be heading directly toward the park. It affected more than the outdoor ceremony plan; it could also have prevented us from flying the drones, which was important to Max and Dandy.
This is one of the biggest advantages of planning a micro wedding or elopement: the timeline can remain flexible. Instead of panicking or forcing the day to follow a rigid schedule, we watched the radar, created a backup plan, and gave ourselves a five-hour window in which we could move the ceremony earlier or later if needed.
Because we do not book another event on the same day as an elopement or micro wedding—and often protect the surrounding days depending on the location and scope—we can make last-minute adjustments with no trouble at all. The only truly fixed part of Max and Dandy’s day was their dinner reservation at 5:30 p.m.
By the morning of the wedding, the forecast showed that the worst of the storm would arrive later and miss us almost completely, leaving behind only some wind and very dramatic skies. The day was a little muggy at first, because Western New York enjoys keeping us humble, but it was absolutely stunning. And we only started a half hour earlier than originally planned!
The Little Details That Made the Day Theirs
A meaningful and beautiful wedding does not require a crap ton of decor, centerpieces, seating charts, trinkets, and traditions that mean nothing to the couple. Sometimes less truly is more, and that was 100% the case with this micro wedding. The details they chose mattered because each one reflected who they were.
The Location
Choosing a location that feels energetically aligned can make all the difference. As woo-woo as that may sound, we have all walked into a place and immediately felt more at ease. It might be a favorite restaurant, a hiking trail, a quiet bench in a park, or a tiny boutique that somehow feels like home.
When the location already feels right, there is far less pressure to cover it with decorations or turn it into something it is not. Hemlock Lake felt right to Max and Dandy, and the landscape did about 90% of the aesthetic heavy lifting for them.
The Guest List
Their guest list included 20 people: the people who meant the most to them. Everyone was there because they genuinely cared about Max and Dandy and wanted to witness their marriage, rather than due to obligation or a random plus one.
For another couple, the right number might be three guests, 35 guests, or no guests at all. There is no universal number that makes a wedding meaningful. The right guest list is the one that allows the couple to feel supported, present, and fully themselves.
Because the group was intimate, Max and Dandy were also able to take a beautiful photograph with every guest and couple. Those images became individual keepsakes of the people who shared the day with them rather than a rushed list of formal combinations.
The Ceremony Setting
This is where the location came through again. Beneath the mature tree, all they added were simple white chairs with bows. The 20 chairs were arranged in pairs along the aisle, allowing the tree, the lake, and the surrounding landscape to remain the focus.
The result was elegant without being overdone and intentional.
The Cake
After the ceremony, Max and Dandy cut a small cake on a round stone table nestled among the trees. It was the perfect size for the 22 people there and incorporated elements of their Chinese culture, adding another layer of meaning to a detail that could otherwise have been chosen simply because weddings are supposed to have cake.
Capturing Their Micro Wedding Through Photo and Video
Having both photography and video was important to Max and Dandy because each preserves a different part of the experience.
Photography documented their day, froze emotions of joy and laughter, and help capture every detail that had meaning to the couple. Before the wedding, we talked through what mattered most to them, and I created a list so they could stop mentally tracking everything and simply be present. They did not have to wonder whether a certain person, detail, or moment was being documented. That was my responsibility.
Video added movement, sound, atmosphere, and a completely different sense of the place. The drone footage was especially important because Dandy wanted to show the sheer scale of the tree beneath which they were married and its relationship to the lake. A ground-level image can show the beauty of a location, but an aerial perspective reveals how all the pieces fit together.
Fun fact: we had two drones in the air during the ceremony so we could capture two very different perspectives the couple had hoped for at the same time. Leave it to Kalika to find a way to fly two drones at the same time, and do it well! We will do nearly anything for the shot—within reason…ish.
Together, we told their story from multiple perspectives, creating art they can return to and relive not only what their Hemlock Lake micro wedding looked like, but what it felt like.
Micro Wedding or Elopement: What Would Feel Most Like You?
Deciding whether to elope or not can sometimes be a difficult decision. We know in our hearts what we truly want to do, however breaking through all the noise of expectations and traditions isn’t an easy task.
My question for you is: What would your day look like if all expectations disappeared? If the only thing you were focused on is what is important to you and your person?
Let yourself imagine it through all five senses. What would you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel? Would there be a gentle breeze coming off a Finger Lake and birds in the background? Would you hear 20 of your favorite people cheering beneath a giant tree? Would you be somewhere completely private with only the two of you, or surrounded by a larger group in a place that feels like a fairytale?
Use this to determine what is most important to you, and then go from there. You most likely already know what you want, sometimes it’s hard to speak it, especially if you’ve grown up putting everyone else’s needs before your own <3.
Planning a Micro Wedding or Elopement Near Rochester or the Finger Lakes?
If the above exercise has you and your person leaning towards a micro-wedding or elopement, but you’re overwhelmed with all the options this opens up for you, I can help!
The options are endless, and decision paralysis can easily set in. However it doesn’t need to be a daunting task! Planning your elopement should be FUN and EXCITING. I help couples create days that feel effortless, meaningful, and entirely like their own unique love story. We help with every detail from beginning to end. Your only job? To dream big with me, and trust me <3
So if you’d like to share your dream with me, please send me a message! You don’t need to have anything figured out ahead of time, other than who you are marrying, and I think you’ve already got that covered!
If you are dreaming about a Hemlock Lake micro wedding, a Finger Lakes elopement, or an intimate wedding near Rochester, I would love to hear what the two of you are imagining.
This is what a Midnight Hike for a Sunrise Proposal in the Adirondacks Looks Like
If you’ve ever searched for a unique proposal idea in the Adirondacks, or anywhere epic really, this post is for you! As an adventure proposal photographer in Upstate New York, this is exactly the kind of experience we love creating.
Let me set the scene: It is just past midnight, and my partner – aka drone pilot, second shooter, sherpa, and keeper of my sanity – and I just arrived at the trailhead by car. In between the trees it is pitch black outside. We have 5 hours to hike the mountain, find a good hiding spot, get a couple hours of sleep, and prepare ourselves for the whole reason we are doing this: to photograph the moment Joe asks Michaela to marry him.
No pressure at all right!?
The Vision Behind This Hiking Proposal in the Adirondacks
Joe came to me when he first purchased the ring, looking for the best plan to propose to his forever person. He knew he wanted to do it at the end of June during a trip they already had planned to the Adirondacks. That’s about where the idea train stopped. And that is where I come in! We talked a little about the things they love doing together, what she loves to do, and what would make the proposal extra special for the both of them. They both loved spending time in nature, hiking, paddleboarding, and just relaxing in the middle of nowhere.
We knew right off the bat we wanted it to be private- which can be difficult to do on any trail in the Adirondacks, especially in June. Michaela is a huge fan of sunrises, and though Joe isn’t the biggest morning person, when I suggested a sunrise hike… it just hit the spot. Sunrise had the highest probability of being alone, and sunrises on top of mountains are just breathtaking. Add in a beautiful view and the love of your life to share it with and BAM! You have an incredible recipe for your perfect proposal. Just like that, we created an adventure sunrise proposal in the Adirondack Mountains- private, intentional, and completely them.
What it Actually Took to Make This Sunrise Mountain Proposal Happen
The Midnight Hike Up:
With something as important as a proposal, we couldn’t risk being seen hiking up the mountain right before our clients. We also needed time to scope up the summit and find the best spot to hide for. So naturally, hiking up at midnight felt like the right move!
To make this happen, we not only had to pack all of our photography and drone gear, we also had to pack water, snacks, sleeping bags and mats, and the little extras we like to bring for our couples to celebrate with afterwards. Check out the pictures below for an idea of what all that looks like! With our packs on, headlamps lighting our way, and the adrenaline rush we get before every one of these trips, we took off on our 2 mile hike up the mountain. The trek was a bit rocky and our bags a little heavy, but we made it up in one piece in about an hour and a half. For those not familiar with the Adirondacks… short hikes usually mean you are going straight up the whole time… and this was no exception!
Sleeping on the Mountain:
Once we made it up, we took a few minutes to take in the sights. The stars were stunningly bright, and a welcome site after the hike up.
Then came the scouting. In the dark. Since Michaela knew what we looked like, we had to find a good hiding spot. I also had to let Joe know where exactly he needed to propose that I could capture it. I climbed a couple of trees, crawled into a few crevices, and ultimately decided the safest spot for me was behind a tree, covered in brush and tree limbs (next time I’m buying a ghillie suit, damnit!).
Once that was figured out (and we had a snack), we took out our tarp, sleeping pads, and sleeping bags, and slept under the stars for a couple of hours.
The 5am Hideout:
Sunrise was at 5:15am that day, so at 4am we packed up, hid any sign of us being up there, and assumed our positions.
My partner, Kalika, headed past the summit to a spot he could fly the drone, and I assumed my spot behind the tree. Before leaving, Kalika checked if he could see me, at which point we realized my shoes were reflective, so I took them off. Joe received a text from me a few hours prior of a photo of where to propose, a spot that I also marked with two twigs. All we had to do now was wait. I’m not going to lie, the amount of anticipation while lying there in wait for about 30 minutes is insane! Thankfully, this wasn’t my first rodeo, and I knew that no stone was left unturned in planning a surprise proposal in the mountains.
The Mountain Proposal at Sunrise in the ADK
And then it was finally the moment! Michaela appeared first, taking in the view that was slowly being unveiled by the sunrise. Joe came up just behind, clearly spotted where to propose, and prepped. A few moments later, Joe asked the love of his life to marry him. Against the backdrop of a stunning sunrise. On top of a mountain that they conquered hiking together. And of course, she said yes!
Can you imagine a better combination? This is exactly what makes sunrise proposal photography in the mountains so damn beautiful and special.
I gave them a few minutes to take in the moment before coming out from the hiding spot. We then took more photos, celebrated with a small picnic and champagne, and gave them a few more minutes to just be together. The rest of the morning was filled with laughter, happy tears, and the realization we still had to hike back down haha.
How We Planned It
Outside of hiking up at midnight with all our gear, a bit more planning had to go into pulling this adventure proposal in the Adirondacks off. And I take all the planning on so that my clients don’t have to.
Choosing the Right Location:
Choosing the right location is one of the most important parts of planning a proposal in the Adirondacks.
The first was choosing the right mountain. After finding out where they were staying during their trip, we looked into mountains near there. Joe sent me a list of the ones he knew of, and I went into research mode. The perfect mountain had to:
Be 2 miles or less of a hike
Have a clearing at the summit that gave us a beautiful view
Have the clearing also facing the right direction so that we could get the best colors of the sunrise. This one takes a bit more research to pull off.
Silver Lake Mountain Trail hit all of my and my client’s criteria, and is now on my list of best places to propose in the Adirondacks.
Timing the Sunrise Perfectly
Timing is everything when it comes to a sunrise proposal in the mountains.
This part is why we hike up the mountain so early – we never want to miss the moment. To time it perfectly, Joe knew he had to leave around 4am on the hike to get there between 5 and 5:30. Anytime in between there would be the perfect time for sunrise photos. Because we truly never know how long a hike will take, I hideout a whole 30 minutes before their expected arrival.
I also have Joe text me when he is leaving so I can time where they are most likely at. When we are in a better service area, I have my clients send me their live location so I can track them, however in the Adirondacks the service is quite spotty making location tracking not an option.
Backup Plans
When planning an outdoor proposal in Upstate New York, flexibility is key.
Weather can be unpredictable, so we always have backup plans. We are constantly checking the weather up until the night before. From there we take a gamble.
The weather predicted rain all the way up to the night before, at which point it changed to the rain not showing up until well past 10am. We took the gamble and were so glad that we did.
We had two back-up plans just in case:
Move the sunrise proposal hike to the next day
Shift the proposal to a nearby river at sunset. We ended up spending the evening at this river instead paddleboarding, swimming, and celebrating their engagement!
What to Pack for a Hiking Proposal:
Bringing the correct gear will make your hike, and your mind, feel a whole lot more calm. Here is our recommended packing list:
Fully enclosed hiking boots with ankle support – Hiking in the dark poses a whole lot more opportunities for potential injury from roots, rocks, and twisted ankles
A hiking bag with shoulder and hip strap. These straps help keep the bag on you firmly without moving around, and disperse the weight in a way that its not all on your back.
Water and snacks – because energy and hydration!
Bug Spray
Sunglasses
Clothing layers: The hike starts out chilly, but once the sun comes up it’s going to be warm. You want to make sure you can adjust based on the temperature!
The RING! – Okay, sounds like an obvious one, but the last thing you want to do is in the excitement forget to pack it!
Headlamps- This is a must. Keeping your hands free while hiking is super important, and headlamps let you do this. I also recommend bringing spares in case one dies.
Anything else you want for your own comfort
What We Provide:
We like to make sure that your proposal goes off smoothly and beautifully. To help with that, there are a few things that we bring to every proposal:
Blanket to sit on
Champagne or a non-alcoholic alternative
Snacks
Personalized sign
First Aid kit
Walkie talkies to better communicate on top if service is non-existent
If you are looking for a proposal photographer in Rochester, NY or Upstate NY, and want a unique way to propose to your partner- you’ve found your wing man (well, technically woman!)!
Asking your forever person to marry you is such a special moment that deserves to be captured. And making it into an experience just guarantees the day will be unforgettable. The best part is, we do all the planning for you, so all you have to do is focus on what matters most: asking the love of your life to marry you. This isn’t about going bigger, it’s about being more intentional with your proposal. It’s about honoring what makes you two an amazing couple, and making sure that shows through in your proposal.
What’s Possible:
A sunrise hiking proposal in the Adirondacks not really your vibe? There are so many other options! Here’s a small list to get your imagination rolling:
A walk at your favorite park or street in the city proposal
A brewery Proposal
The list goes on and on! If you think it, we can make it happen.
Thinking about Proposing in the Adirondacks? Here’s What to Know
Proposing in the Adirondacks is going to be stunning, no matter where you go. However, here are some tips that will help make your proposal extra thought out and special.
If you’re going during the summer months, try and go on a weekday, earlier in the morning to avoid crowds
Blackfly season is May to end of June, so keep that in mind if you don’t want to be eaten alive!
Most peaks in the Adirondacks (including ones that are not in the High Peaks category) tend to still be physically challenging with steep inclines. Make sure to do your homework on the best spots.
Keep in mind some areas require permits for parking and/or hiking
Winter starts a bit sooner in the mountains, with snowfall coming as early as October. This also means the leaves change colors sooner than they do in the rest of the state. Plan your trip accordingly!
These are all areas we help with so you don’t need to worry about it. But in case you are looking to do this yourself, keep these points in mind!
Let’s Plan Your Surprise Proposal in Upstate New York!
Are you ready to have someone handle the stressful parts of proposing for you? Let’s connect. We’ll brainstorm together, create something that actually feels like you, and pull off a proposal that’s as intentional as it is unforgettable.
Connecting for a conversation is always free. Give me a little bit of information below, and I will start planning the dream proposal for you!
A Canoeing Engagement Engagement Session in the Finger Lakes: A Curated Date Night for Outdoorsy Couples
An Engagement Session That Was Really a Date Night
Jess & Kacy’s story began at Boughton Park in Victor, NY, where they spent their first date sitting on the dock, feet in the water, talking about life. That quiet, unhurried evening sparked an instant connection—one that only deepened over time.
About a year later, they packed up their truck and pop-up tent and set off on a two-month road trip across the country, hiking through national parks, sleeping under the stars, and chasing moments that felt expansive and grounding all at once. Some summits were shared with fellow adventurers; others were theirs alone. There’s something incredibly powerful about reaching the top of a mountain with your person and having the space to simply be—no distractions, just presence and connection. On one of those summits, in the rush of making it to the top, Kacy got down on one knee and proposed.
When it came time for their engagement photos, Jess and Kacy knew a traditional session wasn’t for them. They wanted engagement photos that felt like a real experience, something intentional and true to how they connect. After learning that Kacy completes a 100-mile canoe race in Old Forge each year—and that canoeing together is one of their favorite shared activities—we designed an Adventure Date Night Experience that doubled as their engagement session. They handed us the reins, trusting us to curate a meaningful, outdoor engagement photography experience—one where they could simply show up, be present, and enjoy the moment together.
Why We Create Adventure Date Night Experiences
In a world that moves fast and often feels transactional, quiet, meaningful connection is one of the first things to get lost. Creating intentional time together – especially for busy couples – tends to fall to the bottom of the list, with everything else feeling louder and more urgent.
I noticed this especially with traditional engagement sessions. They were often rushed, squeezed into an hour between obligations, with little room to slow down or actually be present. While the photos might have been beautiful, the experience itself rarely honored the depth of connection between the couple. That never sat right with me.
When I stepped back and asked myself why I do this work, the answer was clear: human connection. It’s what grounds us, what reminds us we belong – to ourselves, to each other, and to something bigger. Adventure engagement photography experiences allow me to intentionally create space for that connection through shared moments in nature.
An Adventure Date Night Experience isn’t about posing or performing. It’s about doing something together: canoeing at sunset, sharing a picnic, creating a pottery bowl together, horseback riding, wandering without a timeline. These experiences naturally lower the pressure, help with that camera awkwardness, and allow couples to show up as themselves. When your engagement photos feel like a real experience, the images hold emotion, movement, and meaning.
This philosophy is also at the heart of our adventure elopements. Marrying your person should be about your connection and the life you’re building together—not timelines, seating charts, or expectations. Whether it’s an engagement session or an elopement day, the goal is the same: to create space for presence, intention, and imagery that truly feels like you.
The Inspiration: A Canoeing Engagement Session at Boughton Park
From the very first time we met, it was clear that Jess and Kacy were deeply connected through their love of the outdoors and intentional time together. They aren’t a flashy couple, and being the center of attention isn’t their thing. What matters most to them is presence, meaning, and enjoying experiences together that feel true to who they are – not following trends.
With that in mind, we set out to design an adventure engagement photography experience that felt personal, unrushed, and rooted in connection. One that allowed their relationship to unfold naturally on camera.
As foodies, beginning the experience with a picnic felt like the perfect way to slow things down (and let’s be honest, no one wants to start an adventure on an empty stomach!). We styled a picnic with their favorite snacks and drinks and gave them space to simply settle in, take in the scenery around them, and ease into the moment. That calm, grounded energy carried through the entire session.
While they enjoyed their picnic, I photographed from both land and water – kayaking out to capture the stillness of the scene and the intimacy of those quieter moments together. From there, they launched their canoe just as golden hour arrived, laughing as they chased the sunset and explored the pond together. Canoeing is something they genuinely love, and it showed. These were engagement photos that felt like a real experience and not fake.
As the light softened, we returned to the dock for a final, meaningful moment: the very same dock where they had their first date. Sitting side by side with their feet in the water, just as they had the year before, felt like a beautiful full-circle way to celebrate their engagement.
Boughton Park was the perfect location for Jess and Kacy because of its personal significance and peaceful setting. But experiences like this aren’t tied to one place. An Adventure Date Night Experience can be inspired by wherever your story takes place. Whether that’s somewhere in the Finger Lakes, the Adirondacks, the Thousand Islands, the Catskills, or even destinations farther across the country like Colorado or the West Coast, what matters most isn’t the location; it’s the meaning behind it. Your story is what transforms a place into something unforgettable.
The Adventure Date Night Experience (Step by Step)
Here is a quick and dirty breakdown of their sunset canoe engagement photography experience:
• A Styled Picnic by the Water
Fully set-up picnic: blanket, charcuterie, drinks, and beautiful scenery
Time intentionally built in to slow down
Photos captured from land and water for layered storytelling
• Canoeing Through Golden Hour
The couple launched together in their canoe, while I launched in a kayak to give them their space, and also to photograph the whole picture and atmosphere of what they were seeing and feeling!
We had a perfect mix between quietly enjoying being on the water, to chasing the sunset for the best photos
• Dockside sunset and Lantern Photography
Once back on land, the couple snuggled on the dock with their feet in the water, reminiscing on their first date and their date night
For some creative moody photos, we incorporated lanterns (our signature!) into the remaining sunset, along with some night time photos
Who This Experience Is Perfect For
The Adventure Date Night Experience is designed first and foremost for couples who value quality time and connection above everything else. You don’t need to be an adrenaline junkie or a seasoned hiker—and you don’t even have to consider yourself “outdoorsy.” What matters most is that you enjoy doing life together and believe experiences are more meaningful than things.
Each date night is thoughtfully tailored around what you love, with just enough gentle challenge to spark excitement and connection. Sometimes that looks like canoeing at sunset, other times it might be pottery-making, horseback riding, or exploring a local brewery. When couples share an experience—especially one that nudges them slightly outside their comfort zone—it creates core memories. And those moments translate into engagement photos that feel purposeful, not posed.
This experience is also perfect for couples who feel awkward in front of the camera. If the idea of being told where to stand or when to smile makes you anxious, an adventure couples photography experience removes that pressure entirely. Instead of performing for a camera, you’re simply spending intentional time with your person—while we document the connection that naturally unfolds.
No matter your comfort level or experience, the adventure moves at your pace. Every element is designed around who you are as a couple, so your engagement photos feel authentic, relaxed, and unmistakably you.
Beyond One Location: Finger Lakes, Adirondacks, Mexico & Anywhere Adventure Takes You
While we love designing Adventure Date Night Experiences for local couples, these sessions aren’t tied to one place. Upstate New York offers an incredible variety of landscapes— from the lakes and vineyards of the Finger Lakes to the rugged peaks of the Adirondacks, the stunning waterways of the Thousand Islands, and the rolling terrain of the Catskill Mountains. Each location offers endless opportunities to curate meaningful adventure engagement photography experiences rooted in connection and intention.
Beyond New York, adventure couples experiences can take place literally anywhere in the world, and can be multi-day events. Our 4 day Mexico Couples Adventure is a great example of that. You can read more about that adventure here! (Think climbing an active volcano, horseback riding, and a thousand waterfalls, all in one adventure with your person!)
No matter the location—or length—we take care of the entire experience. From concept and logistics to timing and flow, we design everything so you can stay present with your partner and fully immerse yourself in the moment.
And if canoeing isn’t your thing, that’s just the beginning. Your adventure photography experience might look like dirt biking through the mountains, camping beside an alpine lake, floating in a hot air balloon, exploring waterfalls, creating pottery together, or sharing a campfire dinner with a private chef. There’s no “right” adventure… only what feels meaningful to you.
If you’re craving an engagement experience that feels more like a date night than a photoshoot, we’d love to design it with you. All you need to do is submit the form below!
A 4-Day Adventure Couples Experience in Mexico: Where Luxury Meets Raw Wilderness
Why We Create Multi-Day Adventure Experiences for Couples in Mexico
Have you ever wanted to take a once-in-a-lifetime trip with your person, but felt overwhelmed before you even booked the flight? You want to experience Mexico authentically, away from resorts and tourist traps, but planning quickly turns frustrating. Finding trustworthy local guides, navigating language barriers, and figuring out logistics in remote areas can turn excitement into anxiety (and no one wants that!).
That’s exactly why we do what we do!
We designfully guided, multi-day adventure couples experiences in Mexico that allow you to be present with your partner while we handle the details. We believe human connection is the entire point, and it’s hard to stay connected when you’re worrying about transportation, safety, timelines, or what happens if plans change. When those pieces are handled for you, emotions heighten, memories imprint deeper, and shared experiences become core memories.
Our role is to create those moments (and document them) so you can relive them for years to come.
Experiences for All Relationship Stages
Adventure experiences like this are often associated with proposals or elopements, but the truth is: they’re for couples at any stage. Long-term partners, married couples, and couples navigating busy careers and family life often need this kind of reconnection the most.
When daily life becomes full, time together is usually the first thing to get pushed aside. A fully supported adventure in Mexico creates intentional space to reconnect, without planning, decision-making, or pressure. It’s a chance to remember why you chose each other in the first place, while building new memories through shared experience.
Designing a Completely Private, Fully Guided Adventure in Mexico
Alright, let’s jump into the reason you are probably reading this blog: What does a 3 day experience in Mexico even look like? I’m so glad you asked!
Every experience we create is completely private and designed around the couple. Nothing is pulled from a tourist itinerary, and nothing is rushed. Here’s how we do things:
Step 1: We connect by phone or video to learn who you are as a couple: your interests, comfort levels, travel style, and what excites (or stresses) you about adventure travel in Mexico. And my personal favorite… what you like to eat, because I am all about the food!
Step 2: Once dates and a general region are chosen, we begin designing. With local connections, Spanish fluency, and years of experience navigating Mexico, we create two to three curated adventure concepts that blend culture, nature, and the right level of challenge for you.
Step 3: You choose the direction that feels best (or a combination), and we take it from there!
Step 4: We handle all logistics — guides, permits, transportation, deposits, timelines, and communication — and provide a clear packing list and arrival plan.
Step 5:You arrive in Mexico ready to experience, knowing everything is already taken care of.
Day One & Two: Monarch Forests and Camping on an Active Volcano
Our couple for this adventure wanted stunning views, complete privacy, camping, and horseback riding. They also loved 4×4 rides. With this information we came up with the following 4 day plan:
Day one and two would be exploring Popocatepetl, the second highest peak in Mexico, and an active volcano. While planning this particular adventure outside Mexico City, we learned Popocatepetl was also home to a monarch butterfly sanctuary, which is a rare seasonal phenomenon. Each winter, thousands of monarchs migrate from Canada to this region of Mexico to regain strength.
We incorporated a visit to the sanctuary before continuing by 4×4 up Popocatépetl. From there, horses carried both gear and guests to a higher basecamp where everything was already set up: tents pitched, meals prepared, and support in place.
That night was spent under clear starry skies, followed by an early morning ascent for sunrise, before returning to camp for a hot breakfast and a relaxed descent down the mountain.
Day Three & Four: Horseback Riding and Waterfalls
The following days shifted the experience from (colder) high-altitude mountains to (warmer) lower-altitude sceneries and waterfalls. A private horseback ride through the foothills below Popocatépetl gave a whole new perspective of the volcano our clients had just climbed.
After a break in a local market for lunch and the perusing of local goods and souvenirs, we traveled to Guerrero Mil Cascadas, where our couple camped beneath the stars near cascading waterfalls. The final day included a guided exploration of the falls, which entailed swimming, jumping, and rappelling down a 200-foot waterfall.
Luxury vs. Raw Adventure — And Why We Refuse to Choose
Every part of our curated experiences combine luxury and raw adventure, for the perfect blend of excitement and comfort.
Yes, there are moments of real wilderness and discomfort. And yes, there are also home-cooked meals, set-up camps, and logistics handled entirely for you. This balance creates space for confidence, presence, and genuine human connection, without stripping away the comfort that allows you to truly relax into the experience.
Stepping outside our comfort zones creates an environment in which we get to grow with our partners. It heightened our emotions and creates core memories that bring us closer together. They also breed confidence and remind us how capable we are, and why we chose this person as our forever person.
What “You Show Up, We Handle Everything” Really Looks Like
This means we handle transportation, permits, guides, communication, meals, camp setup, timeline shifts, and language barriers — so you don’t have to.
When the unexpected happens (and in remote Mexico, it sometimes does), we absorb the stress. During this experience, one of our guide was injured (thankfully it didn’t end up being serious!), which delayed our descent and affected the next activity. Instead of placing that burden on the couple, we coordinated with vendors, adjusted schedules, and presented a new calm and flexible plan- all behind the scenes without our couple having to do any of the work.
This level of support is what allows our couples to stay present, even when plans change.
Who These Experiences Are For (And Who They’re Not)
These adventures are for couples who value connection, authenticity, and intentional travel in Mexico. They’re for people who want to explore beyond crowded viewpoints, who appreciate nature, and who want to experience not just a new place, but also the culture and the people behind that culture.
Our experiences are for couples that already deal with enough stress in their careers, and don’t want to also deal with it on vacation. For couples that have to be in control of everything at home and work, and would like to be able to fully let go on their vacation, taking the back seat.
You don’t need to be an experienced outdoorsperson – just open-minded and willing to try something new.
These experiences are not for couples who want full control over every detail, prefer resort-style travel, or are looking for a purely relaxing beach vacation. We’re all about making sure you have time to relax, this just isn’t centered around JUST that 🙂
How This Experience Translates to Elopements & Vow Renewals
While you don’t need a milestone to justify a multi-day adventure, experiences like this one are perfect for elopements vow renewals, and proposals. Imagine exchanging vows at sunrise on a volcano, followed by days of intentional adventure and connection, all without timelines, guests, or expectations pulling you away from the moment.
This is the same approach we use for intimate elopements and vow renewals in Mexico: deeply personal, fully supported, and focused on connection above all else.
Why We Photograph and Film the Entire Journey
Photographs and films are more than documentation – they’re emotional anchors. They allow you to revisit moments you may not even realize were shaping you at the time. Drone footage offers perspective on the landscape, while still imagery preserves emotion and connection.
We are nature lovers and connection-driven storytellers first, photographers second, and planners by necessity, which is why we believe experiences like these deserve to be documented in their entirety.
Ready to Experience Mexico Without the Logistics?
If you just stuck with me through this whole blog, you are clearly my type of person! You and your partner are also most likely considering a different type of adventure in Mexico – One that is less about fighting crowds to see the touristy stuff, and more about experiencing the Mexican culture authentically and more privately. If any of this sounds like you… let’s adventure together! Share you information with us below so we can connect. Let’s start dreaming up an experience in Mexico (or beyond!) that allows you to be fully present with the person you love.
Rainy Adventure Elopement on the Oregon Coast: Lucie & Bryan’s Love Story at Elk Flats Trail
The Oregon coast is a STUNNING backdrop for any event, especially an adventure elopement! If you are looking for dramatic views of the ocean with rugged rocks, turquoise water, wildlife, forests, and stunning beaches… Oregon Coast is the place for you! You can find anything from easy walks to difficult 10 mile hikes along the coast, all depending on your preference. This blog specifically, is about a easy to moderate adventure elopement between two people in love who very much march to the beat of their own drum. Read on for their story, the timeline we created for them, planning and scouting process, and to see some of their stunning images. I promise you, if you are even thinking about an elopement with some adventure in it, this blog will help you see if it’s for you, and hopefully give you some tips on how to have your own!
Eloping is all about embracing the moment, and for Lucie and Bryan, their adventure elopement on the Oregon Coast was nothing short of magical. View there wedding video below!
Why Lucie & Bryan Chose to Elope
Lucie and Bryan had been together for nine years before deciding to get engaged and tie the knot. They were high school sweethearts, and the rest is history! When we had our first phone call together, you could immediately see the beautiful and quirky connection these two had. Bryan just returned home from performing as spiderman for some kiddo’s birthday, and Lucie was telling me all about her love of cosplay. They loved going on spontaneous trips and adventures together, which is how this band (us guys, I mean us haha), got together!
With big families and big personalities, and strong roots in 2 different cultures, they knew that a traditional wedding would end up being more about everyone else than about them. They wanted their wedding to be a reflection of their love—intimate, fun, adventurous, and completely true to who they were as a couple. They craved a day where they could be 100% comfortable to be themselves, and also loved being spontaneous… So much so that when they found out I was going to be on the west coast, they decided to take the leap and elope ONE AND A HALF WEEKS LATER. Yes you read that right, we planned an entire elopement for them in less than 2 weeks- all they had to do was spend an hour on the phone with us talking about their relationship, dreams, and love, and find their wedding attire. The rest was handled by us.
A Morning in Portland: Vows, Jenga, and Food Trucks
Their day started in a cozy Airbnb in Portland, Oregon. In the quiet morning hours, they wrote their vows and prepared for their wedding day. Writing their vows was like setting an intention for that day and remembering what brought them there. They sat on the bed next to each other, each writing their separate vows. The rest of the morning followed a similar, easy vibe.
One of their favorite things to do together was play games, so what better way to kick off the morning than a game of competitive Jenga!? Lucie won, in case you were wondering. After that, each got ready for the day at their own pace: hair, makeup, coffee, swapping stories along the way – you know, all the little things that are such a big part of your day.
During our phone call I learned that they were both quite the foodies and loved a good food truck. So naturally, we knew we had to find a food truck rodeo for lunch. Before setting off for the coast, we made our lunch stop! Each was able to get what they were craving and eat a peaceful lunch together before embarking on the next leg of their adventure.
A Rainy Coastal Ceremony at Elk Flats Trail
While planning, each mentioned their love of an epic view, just maybe not an epic hike to go along with it. That’s all I needed to hear to know of the perfect spot for their elopement: Elk Flats. After a two-hour drive to the coast, Lucie changed into her dress at the Elk Flats Trailhead, excitement building as they prepared for the next chapter of their journey together. We then all walked down to the epic lookout point together. They chatted and took in the scenery, while I photographed their journey and my partner captured the grandness of the location with the drone. The coolest part about the descent was that there was a whole herd of elk hiding in the tall grass with only a couple visible to us, but the whole group clearly visible from the sky!
The hike was about 10 minutes down, 15 to 20 minutes back up. Once at the lookout point, all you could see around you was sheer nature in all its beauty.
With my partner officiating the ceremony, Lucie and Bryan exchanged heartfelt vows, words that spoke to their deep admiration and love for one another, along with a handful well placed jokes showing their playful side.
Bryan’s Vows to Lucie:
“Lucie, I love how caring and stubborn you are, and that you help everyone you can around you without giving it a second thought. I love your willingness to work for what you want, without being afraid to lean on me when you need time to unwind and relax. You are loving, supportive, and the person I always want to come home to. I look forward to building the next chapter of our lives together and making a family. To going on adventures, trips, and to lazy nights in.”
Lucie’s Vows to Bryan:
“Bryan, I love so many things about you, and I find myself admiring your quiet strength and willingness to persevere. People recognize your kindness everywhere you go, and instantly adore you. Your willingness to drop everything in a heartbeat to help when something goes wrong has made you the person I, and many others, call first. I love that you are so willing to go on adventures and try new things with me! I’m looking forward to making a family with you, to rainy days with hot coffee and tea watching dumb movies together on the couch, and to finally getting to travel the world side by side. I cannot imagine doing it with anyone else.”
As they excitedly sealed their vows with a very wet kiss, as the rain continued to fall around them, making their elopement feel even more magical and cinematic. We captured stunning photos and drone footage, immortalizing the moment against the dramatic coastal backdrop.
Chasing the Sunset and Celebrating Love
After the ceremony, we ventured to another small beach just ten minutes away. The rain never let up, but neither did their adventurous spirits. They embraced every drop, laughing and dancing in the mist as we captured the what so clearly made their love story, theirs. Whatever the weather threw at them, the took it in stride without letting it dampen their spirits.
Their elopement was everything they had dreamed of—romantic, adventurous, and deeply personal. It was a day entirely about them, filled with love, spontaneity, and the kind of moments that truly matter.
Planning Your Own Rainy Oregon Coast Elopement
Lucie and Bryan’s story is proof that a little rain can’t dampen your elopement and is a good reason to laugh and dance with your person. If you’re considering an Oregon Coast elopement, here are a few tips to make the most of your experience:
1. Embrace the Weather
Oregon’s coastal weather is unpredictable and very rainy, so plan for rain but don’t fear it! As long as you are prepared for the rain, it can add magic to your day instead of taking it away. We provide the clear umbrellas; you bring the love! And if rain is just not your idea of a good time, we can find you some epic views in less rainy climates!
2. Choose the Right Time of Year
Spring and fall often bring moody skies and fewer crowds, making them ideal seasons for a peaceful, intimate elopement. Lucie and Bryan’s wedding was at the beginning of May. It was chilly in the shade, but warm when the sun made itself known. Beginning of May is also calving season for many animals, make it the best time of year to possibly spot little ones out in the wild! Just remember it’s important to let our wildlife be and keep our distance.
3. Pick a Scenic and Accessible Location
Elk Flats Trail was perfect for Lucie and Bryan, and is perfect for couples who want epic views without an intense hike. It’s easily accessible but still feels wild and secluded. Your location may be more secluded, have a longer hike, have different scenery, etc… The truth is, there are so many amazing options along the Oregon Coast. All you need to do is let me know your vibe, and I will do the location scouting for you!
4. Make It Your Own
Elopements are all about freedom—so bring elements that reflect you as a couple! Whether it’s a post-ceremony picnic, a cozy fireside celebration, or a hike to a hidden cove, make your day uniquely yours. This is where we really come in to take the stress off of you. We have a list of activities to suggest, places to do them, and a creative mind to incorporate whatever you throw at us! Some ideas of things to do near or on the Oregon Coast:
Stop and get Tillamook ice cream right from the source… at the factory! I don’t know about you, but I will never turn down an opportunity to have ice cream with my person
Take a ride in a helicopter to get the most epic view of the coast
Hike a peak and get married at the summit
Go kayaking or canoeing on any one of the breathtaking lakes
Go ATVing for some adrenaline on your day
Let’s Plan Your Dream Elopement
If Lucie and Bryan’s Oregon Coast elopement speaks to your adventurous heart, we’d love to help bring your vision to life. Whether you’re just starting to dream or ready to start planning, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
